OMG!!!  Sam’s whole issue with Emanuel was sparked out of jealousy because he was Jess’ first pick during the speed dating.  Ever since then his true colors have come out, and they are very dark and ugly!  He said he spent a year working on himself to make himself a better person… dude needs another couple of decades!  He needs to learn the world does NOT revolve around him and that he can NOT demand others do as his bidding.